So I am sorry that I am doing a backwards one on a normal WFMW.
Now as you are all aware I am getting married in September.
Everything is going fine and all bookings are coming together really well.
Who ever said that organising a wedding was a stressful time? What were they talking about, although ask me that at the beginning of September!
Anyway, my question at present is this......
"Even though we have placed an RSVP on the invitation, do you chase people to get a reply or do you automatically assume they are attending and count them in the numbers for the reception. Or do you assume because they haven't RSVP'd that they are not coming so therefore don't include them in the numbers and then have the embarassment of them turning up on the day and not having a seat for them?!"
What is the right thing to do?
People have until Aug 18 to RSVP and we have informed the restaurant that we will give them finally numbers at the beginning of September.
Do I follow up with people closer to the time or do I just leave alone??